http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Martha-Becks-20-Questions-That-Could-Change-Your-Life_1/2 - Beck article on 20 questions every woman should ask herself. Think it would work for guys too.
My favorite for today is "Are my thoughts hurting or healing? Your situation may endanger your life and limbs, but only your thoughts can endanger your happiness. Telling yourself a miserable mental story about your circumstances creates suffering. Telling yourself a more positive and grateful story, studies show, increases happiness. Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, choose thoughts that knit your heart together, rather than tear it apart."
Perhaps there will be a different favorite tomorrow... in fact "am I doing what I want to be doing?" already has me itchy. Out to the greenhouse I go with my green tea.