Monday, June 20, 2011

excerpt from 15 natural mood lifters.

At times, we all need to lift our spirits in an instant. Luckily, some environmental and situational factors are easy to control.

But we don’t need to be victims of circumstances—and we certainly do have control over our choices. If keeping your moods on an even keel and staying relaxed are things you would like to pursue, you’ll be happy to know it’s much easier than you probably think.

What you eat, how often you eat, and how much you eat are all factors that can dramatically impact your mood. So, if you can keep your blood sugar stable, your mood may follow.

We also know that exercise stimulates the chemicals in our brains that lead to feelings of tranquility and well-being. The release of endorphins are responsible for things such as the "runner’s high" or the incredible surge in creativity fitness participants often report. Even a leisurely stroll can increase the oxygen flow to your brain leading to a sense of calmness, greater energy and focus.

According to common sense, feelings are what cause our behavior. When we are sad, we cry. When we are angry, we rant and rave. However, a large and growing body of research shows that feelings often follow our behavioral choices. In other words, if we force ourselves to smile, we feel happier. And if we pretend to be excited, upbeat and energized, we begin to actually feel that way. This again proves that we are more in control of our moods than just the circumstances around us.

Here are a few more natural mood lifters you can try.
  1. Eat often and eat light. ... three to six eating episodes (total meals plus snacks) each day.

  2. Limit refined carbohydrates such as soda, candy, cookies, and white flour, which are concentrated sources of sugar. These foods may give you an immediate rush of energy, but they will cause you to crash and fatigue soon after.

  3. Include a small amount of lean protein at every meal and snack. Protein will leave you feeling alert and productive for hours.

  4. Eat foods rich in omega-3 fats. These foods have been shown to lift moods and can possibly alleviate depression. Omega-3 fats are found in oily fish like salmon or sardines, canola and olive oils, as well as flaxseeds and walnuts.

  5. Ramp up your B-12 and folate (folic acid). Scientists believe these nutrients help the body produce a neurotransmitter called serotonin—a known mood stabilizer. Shellfish, fortified cereal, oatmeal, wheat germ, and vegetables are some of the many foods rich in these nutrients.

  6. Get your daily dose of exercise.

  7. Stick to a regular sleep schedule—even on the weekends.
  8. Go outside and breathe in the fresh air. Take a break from your home or office to get some air and sunshine. Even stepping out into cold weather will wake you up and refresh your mind.

  9. Listen to music you love.

  10. Indulge your senses. Sights, smells, sounds, tastes and tactile sensations can quickly change your mood. Light a scented candle that evokes memories of the holidays, bake cookies to remind you of happy times at your grandmother’s, buy your favorite flowers and revel in the smell (and sight) of them, or soak in a scented bubble bath while listening to soothing music.

  11. Do something that brings you joy. Whether it’s going to a movie, reading a novel or having lunch with your best friend, take a well-deserved break from work or stressful situations and do something you love. The change in mood will lead to better concentration and efficiency once you return to the task at hand.

  12. Play or cuddle up with your furry friend.
  13. Volunteer. If time is an issue for you, contribute through donations and you could evoke the same feelings of happiness.

  14. Fake it till you make it. Researchers have found that the simple act of smiling seems to activate happiness centers in the brain. Keep smiling and in time, your mood will match your facial expression.

  15. Create a list of natural mood enhancers that will work for you. Feeling angry? Write in your journal. Stressed? Try a yoga class. If you're exhausted, take a 20-minute nap. And if you’re feeling down, rent a funny movie. Remember, you have a choice and the ability to change your mood. With some trial and error, you will figure out the best strategies that work for you.
It’s quite natural for all of us to wake up on the wrong side of the bed now and again. If your self-care skills are optimal and you try some tips listed above, your pleasant disposition will shine through. However, if you still find yourself moody, angry, excessively tired or unhappy for an extended period of time, talk with your doctor. He or she will want to rule out any medical or nutritional causes before considering treatment for depression.

The nutrition information presented in this article has been reviewed and approved by Becky Hand, M.S., Licensed and Registered Dietitian.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Halfway through the 28 day/7 day breakthrough exercises.

28 days – starting June 2, running to June 30.

Breakthrough exercises
1
Honor yourself
a) Kathy, I’m proud that you ___(7 dif answers at least)

2
cut shackles to shame, blame, guilt and regret.

b) Kathy, I forgive you for ___ (7 dif answers)



Show up for self.  (declaration)
c) Kathy, I commit to you that __ (7 dif answers)

2

Expose the lies (the negative chatter is a lie) 7 days
(do on paper – blue or black pen or pencil
and a red pen – notepad or 7-10 pieces paper)
write down the lie (not good enough, etc, in one category
at a time)

Skip 4 lines after each lie in each category, but let it run out.

categories
 
a)  health and wellness
b) finance and business
c) relationship, love and familia
d) spirituality and faith

 
At first will feel crappy… once you’ve exposed the lies
get the red pen (dark text) and write the truth…
you will want to feel stuck however:
you know there’s a truth as you chose that statement as  a lie.
you will write the truth even if you don’t want to believe it.
(ex – ugly / divinely designed)
Then read the lie/truth for 7 days

7th days erase/line out the lies.



Lie: _ _ _
Truth: Actually, I am okay and my explorations are meaningful.
Truth: “Your” judgment is not about me.
Truth: It is time to let go of trying to get okayness from others.
Truth: I can do this and I can ask for assistance and either way is okay.
Truth: Whatever.


3
Write yourself a love letter.

What I love most about you… admire you for… thank you for being….
I honor you…

Sunday, June 12, 2011

I've got the appointment with "the nurses"

I was so rattled I basically forgot to get the location from N. Called back to do so. Working on giving myself permission to go over the evening before. Okay, self, you have permission. And... it is unwise to ask X for a ride, just go over yourself at least part way after C's celebration.

There.

Okay. This is a not so good day. I don't feel good and the "good helpful diet" slipped the last couple days. Back in the saddle, sorta. But... not very well. 

This is a very familiar emotional state.  Awareness wheel and hakomi --

feeling
sad. angry! despair.
                      
2) distracted 
want  some nurturing and attention, to be safe, to feel safe, not to have to work at all this, not to be ashamed of my feelings which I would be if anyone I cared about knew. I want to avoid lots of negative things that can happen or get said by people who frequently do or say those things. judging my feelings of shame are supposed to help me drop it or maybe just make the judger free to stand clearer... I don't know. but that hurts.


thinking
stuck again! Is it permanent?
I am so unlovable like this. Or...
any time. I made myself do some
things today and I still feel.... bad.
2 hopeless. alone.


perceive
hot, anxious, weakness,
sore belly, tight throat, tears
2 tension. tears. itchy.



3 I feel so one-down in those cases. So why the heck am I there?  It's something about deserving to be if I can make difficult people accept me the way I want to be accepted. Which I'm freakin ashamed of. Ta. Da.


Do
Ask anyway. Find someone else to go with. Go alone, leaving early to get a place to stay.  Meet C, J, etc. Or at least ask. Ask K.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

add ons

hakomi exercise - release made me forget what I was worrying about - and I saw more clearly.

acupuncture can work before, too.

got arnica...


learned from r about yarrow and some edibles.

yoga - child pose with bolster, back stretch over bolster, V legs/straight back.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

excerpt - lack and abundance

Where does lack come from? It comes from the false beliefs you’re holding onto. These beliefs tell you that there is something wrong with you. How feeling wrong shows up, depends on the person.  So how does lack express itself in your life? Do you gossip? Resent? Do you feel “less” than your friends? Do you try to do everything “right”? Or do you struggle with money? These are just a few examples of lack. There are too many ways to share how it expresses itself here. If you are feeling anything but abundant in your life, you are in lack.

You know you’re sitting in abundance when you feel “enough.” You feel as if there is no need for competition. You know that the universe supplies all of your needs. And you are open to receive, knowing that you are not alone and never have been.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

wanting

“What is the simplest or most outrageous thing I can do right now or today to reach my goal?” Sedona Method about releasing goals.